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Grief is a Mouse
Grief is a Mouse -/ And chooses Wainscot in the Breast/For His Shy House -/ And baffles quest -// Grief is a Thief – quick startled -/ Pricks His Ear – report to hear/ Of that Vast Dark – That swept His Being – back -// Grief is a Juggler – boldest at the Play – Lest if He flinch – the eye that way/ Pounce on his Bruises – One – say – or Three -/ Grief is a Gourmand – spare His luxury -// Best Grief is Tongueless – before He’ll tell – Burn him in the Public Square -/ His Ashes – will/ Possibly – if they refuse – How then know -/ Since a Rack couldn’t coax a syllable – now.
Emily Dickinson
Giving shape and form and voice to Grief is important. Grief is all around. Creeping. Stealing. Juggling. Eating. Burning. Coaxing.
Acknowledge grief. Hold it. Honor it. Allow it to live and breathe. Make it part of the falling apart and coming together. It already is for us all. It is a common experience. It is a tie that binds. It is our story. Our lamentations bring us together. Making all we have lost a blessing starts with sharing the weight of grief together.
Think about sharing the weight.
A wise healer in Bali once told me that I did not have to carry the weight. He was not speaking about any weight in particular. He was talking about the weight of it all. Those words resonant over years and continents and oceans. Those words resonant over contexts and relationships and deaths. Those words resonant over yesterday and today and tomorrow.
About Katie
Born in Louisville. Live in Atlanta. Curious by nature. Researcher by education. Writer by practice. Grateful heart by desire.
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