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Speed of the Sound of Loneliness
So what in the world’s come over you?
From Nancy Griffth’s “Speed of the Sound of Loneliness”
And what in heaven’s name have you done?
You’ve broken the speed of the sound of loneliness
You’re out there running just to be on the run
Loneliness is more common than we think. Being surrounded by people, swimming in seas of conversation, forgetting how quiet feels can be the loneliest place. Connections lost amidst noise. Walls keeping everyone and everything out. Running just to be on the run. Naming loneliness — experiencing loneliness — can be hard in a world where simplistic definitions of community mask the work of a social contract founded on love. In that space, loneliness is powerlessness.
I think about loneliness a lot. An existential loneliness hangs over our world. Loneliness as a result of isolation. Loneliness as a result of fear. Loneliness as a result of pain. I know it is possible that when we step back from the edge of loneliness, we can ask ourselves a few questions. What is the relationship between loneliness and solitude? What can we learn from loneliness? What is the speed of the sound of loneliness? The answers might sound something like loneliness is grief and scar tissue, or loneliness is fear dressed in a suit of armor, or loneliness is grace felt knowing we have loved. I am not sure. What I do know for sure is we all feel loneliness, no matter what labels — extravert, introvert, social butterfly, shy, outgoing, quiet — we embrace. I find solace in the thought that loneliness is shared by us all. It makes it easier to experience and talk about as we connect and commit to building the loving world we need.
About Katie
From Louisville. Live in Atlanta. Curious by nature. Researcher by education. Writer by practice. Grateful heart by desire.
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