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Weekly Wide-Awake: Having a Coke with You
I look/ at you and I would rather look at you than all the portraits in the world
From Frank O’Hara’s “Having a Coke with You“
Love is about having a Coke together. Love is about paying attention and being amazed and telling about it. Love is about simple things and everyday choices. Love is about what we see and how we spend our time. Love is about sharing and generosity. Love is about specifics and details. Love is about the awe of bigger than life. Love is about the people we want to tell our thoughts.
The most precious, romantic, abiding, hearts and flowers kind of love is as strong as diamonds. Let me explain. There is a love that is beyond language. It exists within the heart of desire. It exists outside of ego’s armor. Images can try to capture it. Art and music can get close. Love breaks bonds of time as it both instant and eternal. It breaks bonds of space as it both holds and carries and frees. It breaks the bonds of understanding as it listens and forgives and grows. It breaks the bonds of energy as it lives and endures and lasts. The essence of love is peace and intimacy and vulnerability.
Love knows things. Love knows what matters and what does not. Love knows the jugular and leaves it alone. Love sees at life’s absurdities and cries at its cruelty. Love is soft and fierce. Love tells the truth. I am convinced love sounds like a cat’s purr or baby’s giggle or Joni Mitchell. Maybe it smells like a stargazer lily or homemade chocolate chip cookies or clean sheets or the perfume I was given on my birthday. Maybe it feels like Chantilly lace or clouds or clay. Maybe it tastes like red wine or sushi or pizza or a Coke with the one you love.
About Katie
From Louisville. Live in Atlanta. Curious by nature. Researcher by education. Writer by practice. Grateful heart by desire.
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