Katie Steedly’s first-person piece [The Unspeakable Gift] is a riveting retelling of her participation in a National Institutes of Health study that aided her quest to come to grips with her life of living with a rare genetic disorder. Her writing is superb.
In recognition of receiving the Dateline Award for the Washingtonian Magazine essay, The Unspeakable Gift.
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Great Love and Miracles

Where there is great love, there are always miracles.
Willa Cather
If we pay attention, it is easy to feel like love is lost. If we pay attention, it is easy to forget that to love one another is the most powerful thing we can do. If we pay attention, our hearts break a little each day. Paying attention right now is rife with lies and distraction, isolation and fear, loss and grief, and violence and cruelty.
bell hooks offers another view of love. For hooks, love means interdependence and service. Her ethic of love views love as a guidepost toward justice, a moral way of being, and a radical life choice. Her view of love asks us to hold beauty and brokenness in our hands.
I need to hear this message right now. As someone who loves fiercely, I understand how love can become a wilted sentiment, a powerless afterthought, a beige slogan rather than a life-changing solution. Our challenge to rescue love from abstraction, silence, distance, and fear.
The Call
There are moments in life when everything changes. Moments when there is a before and after. Moments when our molecular structure shifts. Moments when there is a new normal. Moments when we don’t remember the world as it was. These moments don’t happen often, and I don’t know if we always know they are happening while they are happening. Maybe time allows us perspective and clarity. They are plain as day in hindsight. I believe a moment is happening now.
Great Love
Great love gets it done. We all have the capacity for great love. As long as I am moving toward great love and acting lovingly in the world, as long as love is my compass, I am headed in the right direction. Knowing everything is working out is part of being headed in the right direction. In a mind filled with fear and doubt and anxiety, the trust and quiet and hope needed to know that it is all working out can be hard to muster. Simply understood, great love is powerful stuff. It is the stuff of open hearts and doors. It is the stuff of clear skies and constellations. It is the stuff of breakthroughs, inventions, and cures. It is the stuff of miracles.
So, what does great love look like in action? It is a combination of vulnerability and strength. It is a combination of root and bud. It is a combination of inhale and exhale. The still small voice inside my head knows when I am acting from great love. It feels right in the truest sense of right and easy in the truest sense of ease. It feels honest in the way I don’t have to lie to myself or anyone else. It is fundamentally about creating, sharing, and expanding.
Paying Attention
- Clarity: Give Love Words, Bell Hooks
- Love Will Come to You, Indigo Girls
- Love and Power, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
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About Katie

From Louisville. Live in Atlanta. Curious by nature. Researcher by education. Writer by practice. Grateful heart by desire.
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